Expecting your wedding to be the happiest day of your life

created by Deborah909
(idea) by mirko (4.1 d) (print)   (I like it!) Wed Jun 27 2001 at 9:24:27
I am sorry you had such a bad experience with your wedding.
I had a wonderful one and this indeed was the happiest day in my whole life.
This was unforgettable for us as I previously took the time to explain some close friends/parents how to manage situations instead of us. We then did not even have to worry about where to sit during the dinner, who to ask to cut/light a cigar.
I even gave a friend my cigarettes in order not to fill my pockets with loads of stuff, like a boy scout.
It is very good to do this this way as we really felt considered.
I'd actually do it again. :-)

Funny to see how bad this w/u reputation has become.
Do you reproach me to be happy with my wedding ?
What ? How, yes, this troll.... Hmmm let's call it a Godwin, a typical sample of political correctness:
"Is your wedding a happier day than the day your first child is born?"
I don't have any child. I can't have one so, yes, until then, I'd keep saying that I am happy with my wedding.
Do not think you can guess how happy your future is gonna be or you might not know happiness at all if you can't Carpe Diem.
Until this day, I've had many many excellent moments but I still consider my wedding as the top day in my life because me and Anne are in Love for each other and despite some crisis we just can't live without one another everyday we tend to prove one another how much we are in love, do you know what Love is ?

Love is the fruit we've been growing since we have been engaged. That's why I consider our wedding was not the ending of our Love but its second birth. The day its growth become more than exponential, the day we knew we'd be one for ever, the day we Mazel Tov'ed our common future.

So, did you disagree with the fact I'm too happy with my own weeding to consider that the instigator of this node was right rather than a rethorical noder ?
(idea) by TrojanJedi (4.1 mon) (print)   (I like it!) Wed Jun 27 2001 at 9:45:00
I agree with Your wedding is not for you, because, well, frankly, it's not. A wedding is just the formally recognized commitment and definite financial commitment, not to mention the opportunity for the newlyweds' families to get together and meet the new branch of the family tree. As The_Moo_Cow said, weddings can be very stressful and are not necessarily the happiest day of a person's life. Though I can't say I speak from experience, I'd think that the moment that two people realize they want to be together for the rest of their lives would be more monumental than the ceremony that follows. It's not about the wedding, it's about the marriage.
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