Hee, only a guy would write "caressing the clitoris".
Well. While some women do go for the full frontal clitoral tweak (say that five times fast), most find it to be way too
sensitive until late in the game. In my experience, and apparently the
experience of most chicks on girly
websites, most women go for indirect or quasi-direct
stimulation - rubbing against a
pillow, playing with
nipples, rubbing with the end of a
hairbrush or similarly sized object (
household objects are great - most
girls are so conditioned to think that
masturbation is an
anomaly among females that the more
discreet the er..
masturbatory artifacts, the better.), or, the number one choice, positioning your
crotch under a
faucet or a
shower head, or for lucky folks with access to one, a
jacuzzi. Of course, strumming away GENTLY with your
finger is also super popular for logistical reasons. Once properly aroused, the
clitoris is less prone to
irritation, and then we go
wild (ahh,
vibrators..). But that's just
none of your business, buddy. ;)